Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Defying the laws...
Dating each others exes, every single movie, book, person, and life experience tells you that we should hate each other. But here we are. Hanging out and laughing and "shopping" together. Our friendship should have never happened, not in a million years. Yet here it is. People don't understand it, it's so odd that two people who should hate each other would consider each other close friends, dare I say best friends? Some may say, maybe they are just doing the whole keep your friends close, enemies closer bit but they don't understand that honestly, everything happens for a reason. We are only friends because we get that. We realize that while we had a good run with our exes, it couldn't last forever and they may have been in our lives to bring us together with the experiences that we needed to help each other. All of our life experiences have pointed to each other..People may never get it and we'll laugh about it probably for a long time, but I'm glad. You know what's funny? She's the best friend I've ever had and she's the most screwed up of the lot. She sees things and can be two-faced[or three-faced or 10 faced? idk how many personalities do you have now?] and bitchy and sometimes hurtful and we may fight, but who doesn't? I was going somewhere with this...Oh, but she's the best friend I've ever had. She was there for me when no one else was and I was there for her, and after every fight, we come back to each other. We're drawn to each other. We miss each other when we're too far apart and we have plenty of people who would love to see our friendship fail, but that just makes it all the more exciting. There is no doubt in my mind that her and I were shaped and built to be friends. You don't find someone like that often. Someone whose weirdness is compatible with your weirdness to make a pair that holds strong even under the worst kind of pressure. How can we forgive each other? I'm not entirely sure but we're getting really good at it. xD
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